goodbye

Some thing always brings me back to you, im sure are words we have all said. There is always those moment’s when you start to break at the cracks just a little. A moment of weakness when you let the old memories flow in, and they just crash onto you. All these emotions at once, AH! So what do you do? Why do we let our past creep back in? Im pretty sure I can speak for a lot of girls when I say that, just when things are going good that is the single moment when either an ex tries to make his way back in or something goes wrong and changes the path of “goodness.” I mean it was too go to be true, who were you to think that you could have it good for a while. Jokes on you, Right?

WRONG

Ladies we need to be strong, these are the moments that we can define ourselves and really prove them wrong. We DON’T need them. There is a reason they are in the past, and not in your present. Keep them there, don’t let them tip toe their way back in. So be strong, hold your self and your standards high. Remember that you are in control of your feelings, not them. They have no control over you or your path. Why do you want to waste your time going in the wrong direction, backwards is not the correct way. Ignore the late night texts, bock the stupid snapchat pictures, and change the sad song on the radio. Trust me get rid of his number, get rid of all the numbers of the people who do no good for you. Weed out the bad, starting with him. God will always bring you through testing times, and this is one. Stand firm and remember that you deserve more than what dirtbag ex boyfriends bring to the table. The king of all kings has a prince in store for you, and I promise once that person is reviled to you it will and forever will be worth the wait. The feeling that I get when I think to myself that there is a person God created just for me, someone that will completely accept me for all that I am and more (even the corky things I do) is such a great thing to think about. Live in this moment just for you. Come to peace with yourself, discover who you are and what it is that you truly want. At 21 im pretty sure you have a lot to figure out before you go getting into any serious relationships anyway. Be selfish for once in your life and let yourself explore, get into trouble and experience new and exciting adventures.

So lets say goodbye, say goodbye to the old person who would let others back into their lives when they didn’t deserve a second chance. Say goodbye to old habits, not putting yourself first. & finally say goodbye, to the word no and start to say yes to new memories.

.xx