Wednesday, January 22, 2014

break the chains

Have you ever felt like something is holding you back? 
It could be a person, a job, a relationship etc. Why do we feel stuck, like we can’t break free? We shouldn’t be scared, we should embrace the new beginning and step forward. We can’t allow others or things to keep us from venturing out from new experiences and opportunities. 
Life is full of testing points, and this just may be one of them. It’s up to you to decide who holds your future. Take control of your journey and don’t let things stop you. In this world we will have times to make choices just for us. We can not think about the effect on others for just a moment in time, do what is best for you. At twenty one you have no idea what is going to happen. Things can up and change in a flash, but that is the beauty of life at our age. We have time to live, to make mistakes, to figure out who we want to be. This right here is you’re moment to take life by the horns and jump head first. Fall, into life’s beauty. Take a chance, move to a new city. Quit your job and take a week off, go on a vacation. Trust me do it now, while you still have time. One day when you’re married and have children you will not be able to roam the world freely whenever you want to. Be adventurous and make rash decisions, do something just for you.
It amazes me that people my age are getting married and having children. I just can not wrap my head around that, why would someone want to tie their selves down at such an early age? Maybe it’s just me, and my free spiritual self but why wouldn’t someone rather go travel around the world and see what else this beautiful universe has to offer. We are at a time in our lives where it is so important to just break down all the little things. Figure out what you like, what you hate, I just really wish people would understand how much there is outside of little towns like the ones I’ve lived in. We get so caught up in our jobs, in leases, and in contracts that we settle because we are TOO scared to risk it all. So you loose it? Make yourself strong enough to make it ten times better than before. Trust me the hardest part is just saying goodbye, once you get that over with you’re just going to get into a new rhythm of saying “yes” rather than the easy no. If you’re not scared or nervous, then you aren’t pushing yourself far enough. Put yourself in an awkward situation and see what happens, if anything it will make you stronger. And id say that’s a gain not a loss. Seriously get off your butt, go tell your boss how you really feel, move to a new city, and start a new life for yourself. Meet new people, and try new things. See where the wind takes you and enjoy every moment of it. Now is you’re time to be free. 
No rules, just live.
.xx

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