Sleeping with a friend

Neon Tress new song is quite the eye catcher, lets be real it's what made you click some link which led you to here. Well let me tell you if you haven't had the chance to hear the song the lyrics to the song are quite true as well. "Why mess up a good thing baby? It's a risk to even fall in love. So when you give that look to me, I better look back carefully cause this is trouble, yes it's trouble." We all know there are risks to falling in love, or getting involved with someone...the biggest one that flashes like a neon sign in your mind is I WILL GET MY HEART BROKEN. Hate to break the news but this maybe true, it could very well end with a shattered heart.

Lets just say thats the case... you got in a relationship and it ended bad, very bad, and now you're left to pick up the pieces. So what comes next? Do you join the lonely hearts club? Go on the hunt for a new, hotter version of the last guy? Or should you drown you pain in a bottle of wine and a Netflix binge of Pretty Little Liars? Here's a suggestion, just a thought, but why don't you do none of these and focus on yourself instead. Many of us connect the word happiness with the word relationship. And although the word could very much connect with love, it isn't dependent on the type you get from a boyfriend or girlfriend. Love and happiness first start with YOU. Love yourself first then someone else can love you back. After you've spent some time for you, then pick yourself up and try again. Here's another tip, this ones for the girls, you can not compare every guy to your ex. All guys are not "the same," there are still good guys out there ladies so don't fret it. Also you can't completely close your heart of because the last two jerks decided it was more of a game than something actually involving your feelings. You will never be able to get past this unless you let your guard down once again and give it a go. Why let love pass you by when it's knocking on your door. I may just be a hopeless romantic, or I may have just watched one too many pintrest wedding videos,  but you have to have hope that there will be a person out there just for you. It will be a risk, don't get me wrong, but it should be a risk you're willing to take. Make sure you give it all you've got, try with everything in you and if it doesn't work out who cares. You enjoyed the time you spent together, and now you know that this person isn't YOUR person. That doesn't mean he/she isn't out there, they are it just might take a few tries to get to them. That's life, so just live it.

xx.

A picture taken at a friend's bridal shower, see love does exist !